Those people made sacrifices beyond believe.Loosing her home then loosing a son should make the Government think about priorities. It certainly is not the war in Iraq it has to be the voters in the
United States.

God bless you and your son’s family, I thank you and your son for his sacrifice for my freedoms. My words will not take away the pain, but your son and to all the other men and women who serve our great country, you will always be in my heart and thoughts.

God Bless

I am a soldier, I fight where I am told, and I win where I fight.
- General George Patton Jr

I am so sorry--I am so sorry for all the families that have lost loved ones, not only in this war, but in all our country's wars. How can we as a nation repay these families? Well for one, we must insist that our warriors are given the newest and best equipment. We MUST-not should, but must ensure they are taken care of if when they return home. We must ensure their children get every educational benefit allowed. Their children should be the first minority given job or educational opportunities. It does not matter whether you are for or against wars. You are aalowed to dissent because of their blood and/or contribution and therefore must thank them, not only with words but by insisting our elected officials honor them and their families the benefits they so richly deserve.

Your words are heartfelt. I pray for your peace and comfort and your restoration. Your son's sacrifice has, in part, assured our continued freedoms. We all share your grief and your pride in him.

I can only join the others in saying how lucky we are having young men like your son protecting the citizens and interest of this wonderful country. We are all so blessed. I would be interested to know if anyone has set up a fund to assist this family in the future. Please let me know by posting it on this website.

To the Orneto-Sikorski family, I offer my deepest sympathy and respect. Your son's ultimate sacrifice will never be forgotten. Our country's continued Democracy will be forever reminded of the loss you and countless others have incurred. Robert had a job to do on our behalf and for that we are grateful.

My words or sorrow will never replace your lost.
But this is from a person who really has a heart, something that our politicians do not have. I hope that as each day that passes, it will get easier for you, but I know for a fact, that it will not. Your family has paid the ultimate price, I hate politicians, and I hate the position that they put your family in. But let me tell you this, that your son is now in the heavens, watching over you..Remember all the good things about your son,
and remember all the good times that you had with him. Cherish your memories, and this is something that no one in the world can take away from you. Do this...make him a star, with his name, color and laminate it..punch a hole in the top, and put it on your christmas tree. This is going to be a reminder of his kindness, and of him. You can even put his picture on your star, and laminate it too..Good luck to you and your family, and thank you for listening.

I agree that material things are so replaceable, when you measure their worth against a life. I do pray for God's comfort and restoration in your life and the lives of all who have lost so much.

I can not begin to imagine the terrible loss and pain you feel. My daughter's fiance' is in Iraq and everyday I feel like I brace for the worst. I am sure your courage and faith have been tested. Know that I as well as many other appreciate the tremendous sacrifice of your son and his family. My heart goes out to you and his children. Words seem so inadequate. May God be with you and may Robert watch over you and the children from above.

Though your losses have been great, just remember you are not alone, complete strangers mourn your loss as well, and when you feel that life has no lemonade left to give, someone will walk up to you with a fresh pitcher. Your son was a brave man who lost his life in combat, and is still held in the highest regards to this nation. May your life be filled with love and laughter from here on out.

Our deepest heartfelt sympathy is extended to you and your family. Our son recently enlisted in the Army - he will graduating from boot camp within days of his father's retirement from the US Navy after 20 years of service. There are no words that can comfort the loss of a child, but please know that you and your family will be in our family's prayers as we continue to ask for God's protection of all of our soldiers serving at home and over seas. God Bless

My youngest son is in the Army reserves and is training this weekend as I type. He is currently in college and joined in order to to to college. I'm at work and my heart is breaking for your family. I am divorced from my son's father who is active duty AF for ove4 25 years, 23 I was a military spouse. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers, God bless you.

My family and I will remember you and yours in our prayers. Your son gave the greatest sacrifice (his life)and that will never be forgotten. I have a son also who is only 6 and I can not imagine the pain you are suffering but know that now your son is in a wonderful place and is watching over you and his children. God bless.

Our sincerest heartfelt condolences. My son is also a soldier; however, he has just returned from his tour in Iraq. We are praying for you and your families during this time of grief. The Lord is faithful and we pray His peace upon you and your families. Please let us know if any funds are set up. We would truly love to help.

I keep reading 'there are no words'. There aren't. The depth of this sorrow cannot be spelled out. What I can tell you is there is honor in his service. This war may not be honorable, but your son went. And fought. And did his best. At some point, you will begin to feel that pride. It will not take the place of his face. But for you, for his wife, for his children, what a legacy to leave. An honorable hero. Long after those in power depart office, your son's heroism will live. And be remembered. A friend of mine in Iraq sent me this and I pass it to you. Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway. In my opinion, Robert stands tall in the saddle.

My family's heart-felt condolences and prayers are sent to you and your family at this difficult time. Your son was a very selfless and courageous soldier who answered the call to protect all Americans in this land of the free and the brave. He will always be remembered.

i am a wife of a gulf war vetren i have been in your shoes not knowing when where how he will be returned to me....months went by and he finally came home only to be sent back a year later he came home a second time, feeling blessed to return a second time he was able to get out before his third tour. Thankfully he did because we would not have our two children today. i feel for you and you famlies or past present and future. You are in my prayers and thoughts daily.

Ms. Oneto, I am so very sorry for your lose. There are no words that I can say to make you feel any better. Just remember that if you let him God will give you the comfort you most certainly need at this time and in the future. I want to thank you for raising such a wonderful person who would risk and ultimately give his life for those of us in his country! He will never be forgotten for his sacrifice! God bless you and the rest of the family!

My tears are with you, I wonder we get through it all, strenght I guess.

My kidz, Gi and Ricky mean the world to me, just as your's to you. Worry and fright carry little, love carries all.

Your baby, my friend is in your heart forever.

Peace, Linda Pierson "The Colorist Painter"

Our thoughts and prayers are with your and your family. No words can take away the pain that you feel. Your son as well as so many sons and daughters have done so much to protect our freedoms....

I wish your family peace and comfort in the memory of what a fine man Robert was. I thank him so very much for helping me keep my freedom; which so many take for granted. I cherish all the servicemen and women and pray for a world of peace. May you find some comfort, knowing he is in a better place now.

May the whole world wake up to the sacrifice your family has made on behalf of us all. I have heard that the death beneifts and future support payments are very low for the families affected by this tragedy. How can we help your 3 grandchildren? If the government won't take care of them (financially) then we all must band together and do it ourselves.

My deepest heart felt sympathy goes out to you and your family. I am the wife of a Marine currently in Iraq and my heart mourns with you. We (families) live day to day in fear of the knock at the door. I cry for your loss as with every soldier lost. You son like so many is a HERO!

May God blessings help you through this terrible time of loss. My family and I will pray for you and for all of our valient men and woman of the armed forces.

My deepest symphathy is sent to you. I know that god will guide you through this. Just remember your son with the smile that he would always have for you and as everyone else I thank your son for my freedom and for fighting for us. May god bless you and all your family!

May God bless you and your family and may your son live in peace with angles in paradise. Your loss is in our prayers and I hope that our words can bring some comfort to you in the days ahead. We thank you and your son for making the ultimate sacrifice for us. With love from Hawaii to the mother of a Hero.

To Elaine:
I'm sitting here staring at my computer, and most of all, after reading your story, I can't help but think that you must feel as if the world has turned on you somehow. It's probably difficult to hear people tell you that things will get better when all you really want is for them to return to how they used to be. I just want you to know that you are not alone in this, your story has touched many lives, and we will always continue to remember you, pray for you, and appreciate the sacrifice your son has made for ALL of us. Thank you.

I cannot even begin to imagine what you must be going through right now. Your son's wife and children will have many difficulties ahead however your love and your strenght will help all of you survive this horrible tragedy. Just know that there are so many others holding you in their prayers and wishing you sunnier days ahead.

YOUR LOSS HAS BECOME MY LOSS. I KNOW THAT THIS LOSS WILL NEVER EFFECT ME LIKE IT DOES YOU. HOWEVER, I WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT I WILL FOREVER QUIETLY MOURN YOUR WONDERFULL SON AND PRAY OFFTEN FOR YOUR RECOVERY FROM KATRINA.

So sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your son with us.

I just heard your expressions about your son and the things he expected to accomplish once he got home. I stand up to you for all your serenity and forbearance at a time like this. I can feel it in your voice as you speak. May God Bless you and your family and may He see you through this difficult time.

Bliss you and your son. I and my family appreciate the sacrafice, please never think he will be over looked for what price he and your family has paid. I hope in this tragic time you will find some peace knowing that we as Americans will keep you in our thoughts and prayers for what you have been through.

My heart aches for your loss. Your a very STRONG women. God bless you and your family. We Americans don't realize how much we take for granted our Country, or our lives till something bad happens to us or someone we love ... Take care Ms Oneto

My deepest sympathy to you. My son was also in Iraq , it was the hardest year of my life. Everyday i worried and feared the worst. He came back ok and i thank god everyday. Iam so sorry for your loss. MY heart goes out to you. God Bless

Thank you and everyone else whom has sacrificed their lives for my freedom and assuring that my 12 year old daughter Emily has all of the freedoms that we enjoy and making the future better for all children.
God bless you and condolences to you and your family

I also am deeply sorry for your loss. To endure the ravages of mother nature must seem so trivial compared to the loss of a child. You and your family will be in my prayers this holiday season. I want to personally thank your family for sacrificing so much for my continued freedoms. May god bless you and grant your family peace.

God Bless you and your son's wonderful children. They will always have a hero to look up to. I am so sorry for your loss.

My deepest sympathy to you and your family...I know the pain you are going through and what lies ahead for you. WE lost our son, not fighting for our country, but lost him just the same and you never get over that. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers and know there are people in this country that appeciates the sacrifice and mourns your lost. May God bless you and keep you safe.

My heart goes out to you and your family. I have a nephew scheduled to return home somethime this month and I pray he does. This is not our war...let the people in Iraq have their country back and give us back our soldiers. To endure a double dose like you have deserves something in return. I wish I had the means to give it to you because I would, without a doubt. We need to make sure that all the families that have lost someone in Iraq is taken care of and that everyone who has lost their whole life from Katrina and the other devasting hurricans, are also taken care of. Our government needs to put it's priorities in order. God Bless you....

To fallen soldiers let us sing
Where no rockets fly nor bullets wing
Our broken brothers let us bring
To the Mansions of the Lord

No more bleeding, no more fight
No prayers pleading through the night
Just divine embrace, eternal light
In the Mansions of the Lord

Where no mothers cry and no children weep
We will stand and guard though the angels sleep
While through the ages safely keep
The Mansions of the Lord

Flags today in tribute wave
For those loyal ones who gave Of their youth,
their hopes, their might
For a cause they knew was right.

Morning bells sound their call,
Pause and say a prayer for all--
All who served valiantly
That men might be ever free.

Toll of bells, drums' slow beat--
Silence falls in every street.
In each heart swells the plea:
Keep us safe, but keep us free!

God Bless you Ms. Oneto. You are in this soldier's prayers.

I'm not a person who can readily put his feelings into words.I can only guess at the pain you are going through. I wish there was some small way I could take some of it away..I feel that your grandchildren will give you the strength to carry on.For when you see them they will mirror everything that was good in your son.And he will live in them always.His kindness ,intelligence and duty will help them.My son is in the Air Force and we pray that he never gets the call.Be safe and well and our deepest sympathy to you and yours.

There are no words. And you'll just have to trust when I say there are feelings.

You have suffered such great losses. It was devastating to see the destruction that you, your family and neighbors have suffered. None of that can compare to the loss of the life of a loved one that you now face. My sympathy, and my thanks go out to you and to your son for the sacrifice you have made. May God grant you the strength to get through this and may the happy memories you shared live on forever in your hearts and bring a smile to you.

my prayers are with you and hope that time will make easier it for you . you have been tested to limted by losing home and son you stay strong and sooner or later good things will come your way

From one mother to another, my heart aches for you over the loss of your son. Please know that I appreciate the bravery and the work of your son to protect all of us and I know you must be very proud of him. My prayers are with you as well as all of those in our military. My niece is now serving in Iraq. Remember, "those who weave color into our lives leave us with a tapestry of beautiful memories."

Our Thoughts and prayers go out for you and your family. Your Son was a Hero. My brother will leave for Iraq in Febuary for a year long duty. He states that he is Against the war and the decisions made by president Bush and his staff. However he will go and fight for his Country. Thats what is so special about the United States.Your son will remain in our hearts and prayers.

Dear Elaine,
No words can comfort the pain you are going through. However you will always have the solace in knowing that your son Robert did his best with the best of intentions for this country. Hopefully you will see a little of him in his three children along with memories which will last a lifetime. You will be in our prayers.

I'm very sorry, I feel your pain. I give you my deepest sympathy. At least your son is in a better place now. I'm sorry you went through losing your home and your son, it must be hard.

As someone that has not lost a child, I can not begin to comprehend the depth at which this pains you. Please accept my deepest sympathy and wishes that you and your family are able to regain the strength that has been torn away. As your son was a soldier he understood the risks that he may make the ultimate sacrifice. None of us wish that we, our children or family are "The one" to make that sacrifice, but unbeknown to the population, Coalition is making a HUGE difference in IRAQ. I only wished that you as a parent could actually see the real truth of your son’s actions. And the life that children in Iraq are now experiencing.
God bless you and your family during this time of sorrow.

God bless your son for his courage and support for all of us. He is a hero. My heart goes out to you and all his family. I lost my son at age 32just 3 short years ago(not to war)...I know the grief a mother goes through. I will be praying daily for you...God is our comforter and always present, even in our darkest moments.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Thank you to you and your son and his children for the ultimate sacrifice one can make. Because of Robert and others like him in the last two centuries, we live in freedom. I thank GOD for men and women like him. May the Lord bless you and give you peace.

I send you my heartfelt sympathy for the loss of your son and the loss of the children's father. You and your family have experienced so much recent loss, and most of us will never understand the depth of your pain. With all the violence and uncertainty around us, we must continue to love one another. God Bless You.

My heart goes out to you and your family. I pray that you will trust in God and he will bring you through this tradgey.

One can see where your lovely son got his bravery and cheerfulness---surely from his mother. God bless you.

You should be very proud of your son. I am very thankful to have such brave men and women watching out for our safety and freedom. I hope that you will get to be close to your grandchildren and that you see him in them. God bless you and keep you strong

Did you really believe your freedom was in jeopardy?
That this womans son, father of 3, had to sacrifice his life for it?

You are a jackasses.
What is worse is you dont realize it.
I feel sorry for you.

You and your family will long remain in my prayers. I cannot imagine the grief would any of my children be lost to a war that is promoted by politicians whose families do not fight. It seems so unfair that it is paid for by the lives of soldiers who are commited to their county, and by their families. I am sure that your son was a fine man of whom you can be proud. You have endured so much loss, and your story is powerful about what is important. I pray for your family, for your peace and for peace in this world, for your heart and mind to know comfort, for divine wisdom to take over this administration, and for your grandchildren to know that their father's love is always with them. Remember that Only love prevails.

I Just want you to know that my family and I are praying for you that our Almighty God who knows everything will give you peace and loving comfort.

Another unnecessary death in an immoral unjustified war. I am so sorry for your loss. This war must be stopped.

I am praying for you and your family that God will comfort you in your loss and that He will also give you the strength to persevere in the rough road ahead. May He take you into His arms and help you to remember and cherish all the memories that you have and to derive strength and comfort from them, also. Take care and know that there are so many that care and are praying for you and all of our soldiers and for all of the Katrina survivors.

My deepest sympathy and prayers go out to you, your daughter-in-law, and especially your grandchildren. I can't imagine the pain you are all going through at this time. I pray that all of your good memories of your son are passed onto your grandchildren. I thank all of you for serving this country as I am not able to. The families of those in the military are serving as well, I thank them as well for their sacrifice. May God Bless you all!

"The Lord is close to the broken hearted and rescues those whose spirit is crushed."--Psalm 34-:18

God Bless you and your family. I know the sadness you are feeling in your heart because I, too, have lost a son. Not in war but to a terrible childhood disease.

My husband was in the military for 30 years and I know the sacrifices that we all have to experience. Throughout the war/hurricanes, etc., I have come to know what is really important in life...God and family...not things. May God watch over you and your family and give you comfort.

i sit here and cry as i read your story, i feel the anguish that you are going through. i too have lost three of my sons through different cicumstances. my heart goes out to you, and i will remember you in my prayers.

My deepest sympathy to you and your family. I thank you and your son for his sacrifice for our country. I pray for the peace of the Lord that surpasses all understanding fill your heart, the heart of his children and his wife. God Bless You.

I am so sorry to hear of your tremendous loss, material things can alway be replaced if needed, but the life of a loved one can not.
My sister lives in Davie, Fl & was hit with Wilma & her husband died from Cancer the same day and she is having a difficult time rt now also. She didn't have much property dmg, but would rather have lost her house that her husband. God Bless to all of you tht are suffering from all of this devastion.

I would like to thank your son for his honor and duty,
I have 2 son's 15 and 10 and I can only pray this war is over by the time they become young men. I could not stand to lose one of them.God bless you and your family.

Elaine, your words regarding your beloved son were so moving and brave. He died honorably in the service of his country, and there is no more honorable way to die than for your beliefs and for your honor and for your country. This will be a difficult time for you and for his wife and little ones. I myself lost a brother one month before Christmas and it stays with you no matter how many years go by, but what remains is the laughter and the memories and the smiles and hugs. Hold on to those and remember that the spirit world is not so far away and that he is always close by and watching over his family.

To the Oneto-Sikorskis and their relatives (if you see this):

I won't do a disservice to your family by railing against politicians or talking about the legitimacy of the war. That is, in large part, irrelevant.

Instead, let's look at what your son did by serving. His service abroad is the perfect example of what it means not just to be a noble American but to be a noble human being. His death is a lesson to his children and to us that there are more important things in life than our own physical lives. There is the necessity for duty, loyalty and bravery, lessons we see in short supply sometimes in entertainment and other forms of popular culture. But we see them in our military, and we should feel proud that they are there to protect all of us and to show us what true courage is.

His children and you, his family, will feel sorrow for his early departure but should also feel pride in his example, which can never be erased, can never be forgotten, and can only be emulated. His spirit and values will continue on in his children.

The troops serving now (including my brother, training for Army Scout duty in Iraq) and troops from past wars are the shimmering examples of what we should all strive to be. My deepest respect goes out to them and their families, who serve a more subtle, silent tour of duty at home during their loved ones' absences.

Please accept my deepest sympathies in the loss of your son "Our Hero". I can't imagine what you are going through right now. Just please know that we are proud of your son and the service that he gave to our country. Prayers are with you and your family during this time of sorrow.

Proud Army Mom,

Im so sorry for your loss, your family is in my prayers, Please let me know if there is anything I can do at all!God Bless!

God bless you and your family, through your pain and grief you have encouraged me today and I know I have to be thankful for all that I have. May the Good Lord hold you in His arms today.

My condolences to you. My wife was recalled and has been away in Iraq since the summer of 2003 and not one day goes by when I dont think about her safety. This upcoming xmas will be the 3rd Xmas she will miss and its just so tragic that she is not allowed to come home just for a short time.

I can only hope our elected congressmen and senators can give enough pressure to this administration to start bringing our troops home so more families can be united instead of being separated because of this Iraq situation.

Its very easy for these politicians to make decisions that effect so many of us because when they come home from a hard day of work, they get to see their love ones, kiss them goodnight, yet for the rest of us, we have this daily void.

As a family member of a retired active duty army soldier, who served during many military actions, I would like to remind those who disagree with any military action, it is BECAUSE OF THOSE MILITARY ACTIONS and many sacrifices,that you are able to disagree. My heart goes out to all those who have had family members, friends or neighbors to have given the ultimate sacrifice of their life. Thank you to all.

THANK YOU
Thank you for raising such a son, and sharing him with us all. I have 4 son's 1-serving. May the Lord Bless you and your son's family for such a sacrifice.

First of all my most heartfelt sympathy to you and your son's family. I know what you meant when you said that material things are temporary and mean so little in the scope of what really matters. I have lost four family members in the the last four years. I can barely imagine the pain you must have. Please find comfort in knowing that there are so many people praying for you and your well being. May God help ease you pain.

God Bless you and your family. Words can never be strong enough to take away the pain that you and your family must endure, but with the support and love of your fellow men may you find the strength you will need!! I am the mother of a Airforce soldier that also served many months over seas. Each day my heart felt as if someone drove a stake through it, the longing to just be with him and protect him never stopped but I found strength through his love. Your son is a shinning star in heaven and will shine on you with his everlasting love. God Bless you!!

God Bless you dear lady! You have lost a child for me,my children and grandchildrens freedom. A debt which I could never start to repay. I can only imagine the pain you have from this lose. May you and your grandchildren stay in Gods embrace.

May God bless you and comfort you!

I cannot beging to understand what you are going through at this difficult time. I have a cousin fighting in Iraq and can't imagine losing him. If you have an opportunity read his book titled "Not on my watch". I have not only respect for my cousin for the job he has undertaken, but also your son who has given his life for his country. God Bless you and your family.

First i wanna give you my condoneses for your son he was a very brave man and a good one to protect our nation. You'll be in my prayers. Don't feel like life is over because it's not and we have a lot to accomplish for our country. First we can start by not electing another BUSH!!! God Bless u and your grandbabies.

My heart goes out to you. I lost my 4 year old back in 1982 and it took me a long time to get back to feeling normal. You still have a piece of your son through his children. And you are right. Possessions are nothing compared to your children. May God be with you now.

I am truly so very sorry for your loss and appreciate your sacrifice and your son's sacrifice for our country and our freedom. I've experienced the loss and devastation here in Pensacola, Florida with both Hurricanes Ivan and Dennis and they have really made me realize how temporary and unimportant material things are and how short and uncertain life can be. With that said, I would like to share a verse that has helped me cope with the uncertainty of the future: "For I know the plans I have for you...plans for welfare and not for calamity...to give you a future and a hope" - God [Jer. 29:11]. My heart goes out to you and I pray that God's peace fills your heart.

God Bless you in your time of loss..May God give you strength and hope for years to come..

My heart hurts for you and your family. I am so sorry about your son and your losses from the storm. God bless you and yours.

I send this to Roberts mother, as a mother myself my heart breaks for you. May God keep you in his arms and send you peace until your family is united again one day in heaven.

I can only imagine the hell you are going through.
I know something about loss, I almost died giving birth to two beautiful girls two years ago, one of whom had to be brought back to life. When the hospital finally released them from the hospital my mother, only other living family and best friend suddenly passed away and I found her. She was only sixty and she had not been ill-it was sudden. I understand the depth of the sorrow you must feel and will feel for your son. Death is senseless and beyond our comprehension and Mother's should never have to outlive their babies. The helplessness a parent feels when a child is ill or dies is devastating. I know you will look at his children everyday and think, "He is missing this. He deserved to see this-to hold them-to be loved by them." I know this because this is what I do when Mom's grandchildren smile. I can only tell you what has helped me get through. THE CHILDREN NEED YOU to be whole. They have a Mother, but she does not have your son and is emotionally bleeding inside herself.
She needs you and babies need Grandparents in a way that no court or government realizes. Honor your son by doing and being everything he would for them. Tell them about him and make who he was real to them. Give them what he had to teach them, because only you can do this-he got it from you in the first place. My deepest sympathies to you and your family

My heart goes out to you and your family in the loss of your son. I continually pray that our heavenly father will give strength, courage, comfort, and most of all serenity to the families who have lost loved ones in Iraq. Please know that many Americans are doing the same thing. I mourn with you in the loss of your son.

I'm sorry for your lost.

Words are such a small gesture but they are all I have to give in what may be one of your darkest hours. Know you are in many peoples prayers as we also pray for our own sons, daughters, husbands and wifes that sacrifice so much so we may have our freedoms. May God bless and keep you.

Damn G.W. Bush.

I am a mother of a Marine and from the state of Louisiana. Nothing anyone can say will make your loss any less. Just know that I will pray for you and your family. God Bless you and your son for what he has given to our country.

My heart and prayers go out to you and your son's family. May God give you and your son's family peace with every passing day. I apprecaite the dedication and sacrifice your son and all the men and women serving our country do to ensure our freedom.
May God Bless You!!!!

Rain of tears are falling from heart. Receive my deepest sympathy. I have a son serving in the Air Force I constaly pray for his safety and all the boys seving in the military .I also feel that our goverment have involved this country into a war that will cause many young american life based on false propagand and political purposes. Instaed he should be solving many problems in this contry.

Our prayers are with your family at this difficult time. There is nothing we could possibly do or say to help, but we hope that the children of your son never forget he was a hero, no matter what anyone ever says about the War, the soldiers are heros. God Bless You.

I know you must be going through tough times and my condolences go out to you and your family. I admire those who are willing to put their lives on line for this country...to protect all of our liberties. May you find peace and comfort knowing that your son stood for something and made a decision to protect what he believed in. Take care of yourself and the children left behind in this tragedy. May God's hand and Blessings always be upon you and your family, and all the other families who are also mourning.

I am so deeply sorry for your loss. You will never know how much it means to me that your youngest son served for the freedom and rights of another nation and the continuance of ours. You are a strong woman and you will make it through no matter what. Keep your head up and remember don't look to the past only towards the future with your son as your guiding light.
God Bless You.

Hi,
I am so sorry for your loss. I am a soldier too and have been in two deployments; Iraq and Afghanistan. I had to stop what I was doing and send you this note. There is a poem I wrote called "It's a set up" that I want you to have. It is very encouraging. I don't know how to get it to you but if this message is approved and posted on the site please get it on amazon.com in December. The book is called "Inspirations from Dwnrange." If I know how to, I will ship a signed copy to you myself. Once again, I'm sorry for your loss. I really understand the gravity of your loss.

Albert Amara

My heart goes out to you. My son is in Iraq and is due home in December and I pray daily for his safe return. He to has 3 children. Your son gave the ultimate sacrifice and for that we shall always be grateful. Please tell his wife that I will definately include all of you in my prayers

thank you for raising a hero

Perhaps it is time that we all hang our heads in the shame that has allowed us to stand idolly by while those young men and women, fight and die for cause few really fathom, let alone understand " Blood for oil ". This womans son will not return to her or his wife and children. For this, For those lives lost, we are ALL responsible. We have people homeless in the wake of the worst weather any have witnessed let alone survived in this lifetime. We have families lost,seperated, devistated, hungry and sadly, many now dead. When do we draw that line and say "Enough is Enough ". When do the American people decide they are more important, thier lives and the quality of, are more important that any ill costing war anywhere. When do we decide children must eat, have homes, warm clothing, HEALTH CARE and food ?? When will we look at our Seniors as the backbone of the success of this nation and treat them as such, When will we wake up and tell anybody that will listen.. ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!! This must end and it must end now !! Our people are suffering, Our people are hungry, homeless and yes, Our people,Our children dying right here on American home soil and nobody seems to give a damn.
Your President is an embarrasment, your Country is in Shambles... and your well fed, well housed and overpaid Govournment does NOT give a damn.
Is this what you elected? Is this what you expected? Is this the state of your hopes and dreams ? and is this really one Nation " for all people " under one God?? " I think not ". The world shakes it's collective heads in disgust that such a man could have ever been deemed suitable to Govourn what was once such a beautiful and peaceful nation. And who are we to blame?? You are the ones who Elected it.. You put it there.. you swallowed the hype and hysteria and MR. Bush with all his money and powerful friends knew he would not pay... not one life.. not on thin dime... for all that travesty and heartbreak he was to bestow upon his people. Has a Bush lost a family member in this war? How about your Vice President ? And his lynch men??
" I thought not.. " Show respect to this woman who lost her son.. cry with her.. pray with her.. but for God sakes, refuse to be silent any longer. One life lost ...another life lost.. is simply, tragically, one life to many. Somebody.. Somewhere.. has to care... " It is up to you ".

I would like to take this time to thank you for your sons sacrifice. Even though I did not know your son, I mourn his death like I would my own family member. May God bless you and your family, and may peace and happiness once again fill your hearts.

My heart goes out to you and your family. I pray that the Lord will give you peace and comfort during these hard times. You are in my prayers. Thank you for raising a man who loved his country enough to die for it. Your Son is a Hero.

Dear Mrs. Oneto,
I have suffered a lot of loss in my life time starting with both of my parents. However, I am unable to say to you,"I know how you feel", because each loss is individual and each person's suffering will always be unique to that person. I pray for you, and your family and most of all your son's family. I thank his wife and his children and he himself for giving so much for so many. My prayer is that now that we as a nation sent him to war, that we will rise up as a nation and take care of you as a result of Katrina, and his beloved family of whom he left for ever on the orders that he was defending our Nation. As a nation we should show our deep appreciation for such a huge sacrifice by making sure that you and his family are well provided for. I don't think that I can say a simple thank you, because this goes far beyond such trivial words. My prayers though directed towards you, will be that our nation rise up and show our graditude by providing safety and security for his family, as he provided for us. May F.E.M.A. and the politicans of this nation who sought to help the people, learn to reach out and help the people with deeds and not with the weak words of how thankful they are for his sacrifice, while his children struggle for basic daily needs, and his mother tries to find shelter and comfort. May God bless you and this family always.

i know nothing i write here today will take away your pain just know that my family and all our families lost another great man, father and american soldier fighting someone else's war!!!! God bless you !!!

I AM THE DAUGHTER OF A MARINE, NIECE OF FOUR UNCLES WHO SERVED AND SISTER AND GRANDAUGHTER OF MANY WHO SERVED. I HAVE THREE SONS, AND ALWAYS EXPECTED THEY WOULD TOO. I AM SCARED TO DEATH OF LOSING THEM, AS YOU HAVE. I HAVE NOT WANTED THEM TO JOIN. READING THE COMMENTS MADE BY SO MANY WONDERFUL AND CARING PEOPLE HAS RESTORED MY FAITH, MY HOPE AND LOVE FOR THIS COUNTRY AND YOUR SON TRULY IS A HERO AND WE REALLY DO PRAY FOR YOUR HEALING IN THIS TIME AND PRAY FOR ALL THOSE WHO HAVE LOST THEIR LOVED ONES. I CANNOT IMAGINE YOUR PAIN IN THIS. IM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS--YOU ARE SO RIGHT ABOUT WHAT MATTERS MOST. THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR STORY TO REMIND US ALL OF THAT.

There's not much I can say
There's not much I can do
But I'll hope the prayer I cast
Will reach into heaven for you

GOD BLESS YOU AND I TRULY FEEL THAT YOUR SON HAS A SPECIAL PLACE IN HEAVEN FOR HIS SACRIFICE TO OUR NATION. I TOO HAVE A SON-IN-LAW THAT HAS BEEN IN IRAQ AND CAME HOME TO HIS FAMILY BUT HE MAY HAVE TO GO BACK SHORTLY. OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND OUR OTHER FAMILIES THAT HAVE LOST THEIR LOVED ONES THROUGHT THIS WAR. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS

I am a Viet Nam vet and have a son in law and daughter in the Air Force. Please accept our thanks for your son, and our prayers for your peace.

There are no words I can think of that sound appropriate. I can only tell you that I share your sadness when I think of all the young men and women who have made the ultimate sacrifice and whose children will never see them again. I do not agree with the war, but I do support our troops. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your son's family. We are from Louisiana and my sister lives in Bay St. Louis who also lost everything due to Hurricane Katrina. We too lost our loved one, our Father last year while traveling in Diamondhead. We know the pain, just know each day does get easier to tolerate and you begin to remember and treasure the wonderful memories!!

I'm so sorry for your loss,I'm so proud of your son and all the soldiers fighting for our freedom. be strong for your grandchildren may god bless you and your family.

Our prayers are with you and the entire family. I am a native of McComb, MS where 155th is and my own nephew is in Iraq right now. No words can tell you how sorry I am for you and for the children your son has left behind. Keep the memories alive for them.

It is unnatural to outlive our children. It is a pain that only those that have lost children can empathize with. My heartfelt prayers go out to you and to the family that your son had left behind. Our fallen heroes deserve so much more than a medal for their service. They deserve for the wishes and dreams that they had for their wives and children to be realized. I feel that they the Federal Government should make every effort possible to see that this is done. I also hope that your grandchildren can still have the opportunity to visit Disney World in December. My prayers are with you.

Much is expected from those to whom much is given. This is a biblical truth for a country such as ours where we are so richly blessed. First, we need to say a sincere Thanks You to the soldiers that make up the wonderful fighting force of the United States. Everyday, they risk their lives to preserve our imperitave way of life. Moreover, they stand in the way of those who conspire against freedom and democracy for the benefit of the citizens of the free world. We owe an even greater thanks to those families whose love ones were lost in preserving freedom. Through their sacrifices, we are able to enjoy the priviledges and benefits of our American way of life. But we must turn now to that greater task - the task of defeating terror, tyranny, and insurgency. We must turn to the task at hand of sending a strong message to the denegrators of democracy and the haters of freedom. For those intent on violence and destruction, we will hunt them down and kill them before they have a chance to carry out their terrorist missions. We will execute our noble cause so that those who have been lost will not have died in vain. We must finish the job. And even when we have completed our mission in Iraq, there will be still much much more to do bothe at home and abroad. Our hurricane affected citizens need our help as well as other countries where its citizens are cheated out of freedom. We are a just country. A rightous country. We will always seek to do what is right no matter the circumstances. may God continue to richly bless the United States of America and the George W. Bush administration

Dear Mrs Oneto
I am very sorry to hear of your lost. I know no words can express my sorrow; but I hope this note will ease your pain. We thank your son for his sacrify and you to give us American a heroe

My deepest symphathy and God bless you and your family and all of those who is fighting oversea

I send you and your son's family my deepest sympathy for your loss and also my undying gratitude to your son for paying the ultimate price to ensure that we may have our freedom. I only hope our servicemen will get the respect they deserve when they return home. I also want to wish you a speedy recovery from Katrina. I know that put in perspective that loss is nothing and is something that you can deal with. My prayers are with you.

I just want to say thank you for having a son so brave to fight in this war. I would not be where I am if it were not for all those soliders and their families. May God be with you and your family during this time of mourning. Tell his children their father was an American Hero for so many people. May God Bless you.

Please accept my deepest sympathies in the loss of your son "Our Hero". I can't imagine what you are going through right now. Just please know that we are proud of your son and the service that he gave to our country. Prayers are with you and your family during this time of sorrow.

Proud Army Mom,

My prayers are with you, I have a son in the Army and I pray for him and all the other soldiers daily and I hope that this war will end soon.

My heart goes out to you and your family. Those words to you and all the loved ones of our military lost in war seem so inadequate. They are constantly in my thoughts and prayers. My heart aches every time I hear of another one lost to us, just as painful now as when the first soldier (or civilian) was taken. The price for our freedom is so great, often I feel that I am not worthy of their sacrifices. I pray for peace and I know that the sun will shine again if we keep looking for it.

My prayers go out to you and your family. Know that your son is a HERO and will never be forgotten. I have two children both in the military. My son is in the AF and currently in Iraq. My daughter is a Marine and will be deployed next year. I pray for the safe return of all our armed forces. May God bless you always.

Dear Mrs Oneto
I am very sorry to hear of your lost. I know no words can express my sorrow; but I hope this note will ease your pain. We thank your son for his sacrify and you to give us American a heroe

My deepest symphathy and God bless you and your family and all of those who is fighting oversea

I am also so sorry for your loss and your grandchildren's loss. I am a mother (and grandmother) of a son in the Air Force. I thank you for all your son did to fight to allow our country to continue being free. My heart breaks for all parents, spouses, and children who have suffered such a loss. I would like also to know if a trust has been set up for these children. Please know you are in my prayers.

JUST HOW GRATEFUL I AM FOR WHAT YOU SON HAS GIVEN TO PROTECT ME, OUR COUNTRY AND HIS FAMILY WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO BE SAID PROPERLY. THANK YOU ROBERT FOR A LIFE WELL LIVED AND HAVING HONOR AND DIGNITY YOUR SACRAFICE WILL NOT BE FORGOTTEN HERE ON EARTH OR IN HEAVEN ABOVE FOR WHAT GREATER LOVE HAVE A MAN THAN HE LAY DOWN HIS OWNE LIFE FOR A FRIEND. THAT IS WHAT YOU AND COUNTLESS OTHERS HAVE DONE FOR EVERY SINGLE AMERICAN. WE LOVE AND APPRECIATE YOU ALL.

Elaine,
Words are indeed inadaquate, but please accept my sympathy for your losses...your home and your son. I am a Christian and I believe that we all have "crosses to bear" in this life. But I hope that someday you will be able to say to Robert's children that he did not die in vain. But rather he died for a bigger cause... freedom for all. God bless you and I will pray for your comfort and peace in the days to come.

The loss is to much to describe. However Americans have always made the sacrifice, and they always will. True americans, trully understand, that the american way of life and freedom was paid for bye many sons and fathers. When america asks them to go and fight they dont ask why...........they go. Robert Oneto we thank you and God bless you.

Ms.Oneto and Family.. i am so sorry to hear the loss of your son and the father of children you cherish, i was moved to tears as i read this story and please accept my thanks and sorrow from someone that knows sorrow and loss as well.i have been ravaged with this hateful hurricane and also with hurricane wilma and can not even compare to the loss you and your family have suffered.i hope every day for the rest of your life and your family that you will see his kindness and happiness mirrored in the eyes of those that loved him the most.i am very sorry for your loss.

Why do we fight for? There is plenty space on earth for ALL humans...We need to cultivate LOVE in full...
Let's concentrate in God's word and we all be happy forever...

The reading of the recent events in your life is heartbreaking. You're right about material things - they come and go. But family is forever. Cherish the memory of your son and pass it on to his sweet little children. This ongoing war is causing so much pain to US citizens and the saddest part about it is that they are dying fighting for "Iraqi Freedom" - not ours. I often wonder how many people realize that.....what a tremendous sacrifice.

I am so very sorry for your loss. He did a great job protecting his country. My family and I thank him for doing that for all Americans. He will always be in prays and also you. May God watch over his young family and protect them. I only wish you peace and prays that it will come soon.

MAY GOD KEEP YOU CLOSE TO HIS CHEST AND COMFORT YOU IN YOUR TIME OF LOSS! I live in Central Louisiana and even though we were not hit directly by Katrina; seeing/ hearing stories of people who were hit directly to our hearts. It is hard to start over no matter the situation, but to have this happen to you seems unthinkable. I lost my husband after 3 1/2 years of marriage (he was 28) to cancer, and both his brothers were stationed in Iraq. We worried about their safety while watching a husband/ father/ son/ grandson grasp for every breath. I will pray for your family, and pray that comfort comes to you somehow. Sometimes the greatest memories are the ones that seemed small at the time!

The strength of your love is more powerful than time or distance or war. It is in your voice, and in your knowing that he was gone from this earth, but not ever gone from the existance of love. Your family will remain in my prayers as they come to grips with this loss. With deep gratitude for your son's conviction to do what was right in his heart and follow his path. I will continue to work to bring about more peace in our world. In his name, for his children, and for mine, and for all of the children of these times in every country. Your loss is shared by every mother who reads this.It will strengthen our resolve to be even better parents. May it help ease the burden of your grief. May Robert's children know the love of their father forever...and may you find peace in knowing that love never dies.

As a military member serving overseas I can understand the feelings of loss that your family is feeling right now. The parents and families of us service members carry the largest load imaginable, they are our hopes, dreams, our very backbone and you have no idea how much you are truly needed. Your son has made a great sacrifice for our country's freedom, and his loss is a great blow to us all. I hope you will continue to support those of us over here, so that those who have made, and are making, the sacrifice haven't done so in vain. I'm so sorry for your loss. May you find some comfort in those who remember with you.

My deepest sympathy to you and your family for your loss. Your son is a hero as are all of our military men and women. Sometimes life seems to give us more than we can handle. May you find the hope and comfort you need to get through this difficult time. Your story is a strong reminder of what is truly important in life. God Bless You.

I can only say thank you for what you have given to us all, your son. No mother should ever have to bury their child. Your son must have learned alot about love and compassion from you. He gave of himself and that takes a lot to do. My thoughts are with you and of the days ahead. Your son should be honored for all that he has done and you for all that you have given. Thank you for our freedom, for without you, your son would not have been.

I can only imagine the loss you feel, I have two sons and the idea of not having either one of them is beyond my thinking. I will pray for you and your family for peace to be laid on your heart in knowing that your son was doing what he was proud to be doing, helping protect his country. My brother served two tours in Iraq and I know how hard it was on my family until he did get to come home to us. My God be with you and yours. I myself am from Mississippi and I know the kind of people that live here, we are proud, loving and unselfish so I know that you are also that kind of person.

The people of this country are indeed lucky to have men like your son who are so brave and selfless. I thank God for your son and for the many soldiers like him and pray that you will be comforted during this time of loss.

May God Bless you and your family during this most difficult time. Try to keep your sons memory alive by living life and doing things that you know would be pleasing to him. Please take care of those innocent children and be strong. The children need you.

First, I would like to express my deep sympathy for you and your entire family in regards to the loss of your son. My prayers and thoughts will be with you and your family in this time of sorrow. I was involved in Hurricane Rita here in Port Neches, Texas shortly after your disaster. I know how hard it is to loose your home. You said it may not be much but it is your home. It is your life for the last sixteen years and all of your memories with your family. Please don't discount that. As we all try to recover from this, we just have to remember that God has a plan for all of us. Just keep being strong and have faith. My heart goes out to you. God Bless

I am so sorry for the loss of your son and the father of your grandchildren. Please know that in my eyes your son is a hero. He is a hero that will never be forgotten. He has afforded our country with the freedom that we enjoy. Each day we have the freedom to express our opinions, freedom to choose how to live, and the freedom to live and love our families and friends without the fear of intimitation, tyranny or oppression. I, for one, thank God daily for these freedoms and the men and women that made them possible. Every time I am able to read the newspaper, travel from state to state, or attend church services, I am reminded of our fallen heros. My grandfather was a WWII veteran and he made it very clear to me at an early age that I have a duty to the men and women who made these freedoms possible. Each time I enter the voting booth, I pray a special prayer thanking God for the heros that made this great country possible. Your son, and his sacrafice, will not be forgotten. May the peace of God be with you and your entire family.

I am so sorry for your loss and the loss of your grandchildren and their mom. There are no words I am sure to ease the pain. As I sit here and write this I worry about my son-in-law who is in Iraq. This week has been difficult, but then they all are.

The worry that is endured by mothers, wives and children daily is a great burden. I pray that God helps you in your grief and dispair.

Finally, I thank you for your son and his service to this country and the world. The spread of terrorism that is world wide needs to be stopped for the freedom of all. I thank him for being a fellow National Guard to my son-in-law. To him and the 2000+ Iraq War heroes that gave their lives, I will be eternally grateful.

I personally knew two families who lost loved ones on 9/11. It was a very sad day in our history; your son has shown that our nation has men and women of courage that will fight for our country and defend our freedoms at all costs. Our country is very fortunate to have men and women like him.

God Bless.

Tears came to my eyes when I read about your loss.
From one mother to another I feel the heartbreak and I am sorry you have lost your precious son. Your son is a hero to us all.