It could have been any graduation ceremony in any American town.
It was a perfect, breezy spring evening, so breezy that students at times had to cling to their caps, which glinted with bronze tones thanks to a perfect sunset. The band played "Pomp and Circumstance," fighting to be heard over the cicadas. Graduates marched across a high school track, girls’ high heels slowly sinking into the turf as they stepped toward the end zone. Young men wore too much cologne. Speeches were given, diplomas handed out, yelps came from the stands against strict orders from the principal. Finally, caps were thrown skyward.
But a careful eye, or a careful ear, could discern that this ceremony was something very different.
The band instruments -- many were borrowed. The girl's dresses -- some were donated. And nearly all these students started their year at another school. As the year began in September, very few believed they'd be graduating tonight at Bay Field.

Valedictorian Casey Maria Dedeaux
Like valedictorian Casey Maria Dedeaux. She began her senior year at a school in Tampa, Fla. But there she was, standing on a stage under a goal post, water tower towering over her emblazoned with the words “Bay St. Louis, a place apart,” talking about her fellow students and their future.
"I don't want to talk about the same things you always hear at graduations," she began. She didn't have to look far for more original material. "I really didn't want to talk about Hurricane Katrina. But then I realized you can't talk about the class of 2006 without talking about the storm."
If you dropped in on this ceremony, on this perfect spring night, you'd notice absolutely nothing different about the field, the students, or the school. Very little was out of place, including the students. The class should have had about 130 students graduating tonight; instead, 125 graduated, and two students who moved away were allowed to participate in the ceremony. That's remarkable given the twin towns of Bay St. Louis and Waveland are still missing nearly half their residents. But these students wanted to graduate from this school this year, said Principal Marca Boyer-Alexander. Some even moved in with friends, while their families remained away from town, in order to resume their senior year.
"The resilience of these kids is amazing," she said.
You had to listen close to even hear evidence that something was amiss at Bay High School graduation. Dedeaux was even able to make light of it all in her talk.
"We know we can handle anything thrown at us, including debris," she said.
That this graduation happened at all is a minor miracle, given just how much debris came to rest on nearly every home in this community. Back in September, in the days following the hurricane, principal Boyer-Alexander said there was "tremendous doubt" that students would be able to graduate from the school this year. But emergency refurbishing, donated books, and a lot of spit and polish got the building open for business Nov. 1. Then, some creative scheduling added more classes for the students, enough to allow each one to earn the required hour credits by graduation night.
"We wanted to make sure the storm didn't punish these kids," she said.
Not that there wasn't punishment. No senior died in the hurricane, but another student at the school did -- so did dozens of family members and friends, who should have been here tonight. Others faced -- and still face -- the long road back to normalcy.
"I watched men and women cry as they stood in line for water and food," superintendent Kim Stasny reminded the students. "I saw mothers begging for shoes and diapers for their children. ... we were stunned, we were speechless, we were broken."
There were plenty of reasons to quit. But they did not; and tonight, like every other high school senior in America, the talk focused -- not on death and destruction -- but on escaping from classrooms, on achieving dreams, on getting rich. On hope.
Today, Bay St. Louis and Waveland are at a critical juncture. Cleanup is about two-thirds done, and now, the rebuilding has begun. But there is a hanging question in the air. "Are you staying?" With hurricane season around the corner, many are facing the choice to stay and rebuild, or to go.
Almost without exception, the students of Bay High School had long since made that choice. And because of that choice, tonight, for one evening, in one place, they were normal teen-agers. And they were all home.
Two dozen graduates of 1956 -- 50 years ago -- were honered at the ceremony. One was Larry Bennett -- who once served as Bay St. Louis mayor. As the ceremony ended, the now-former students marched across the field to an open spot, twirled themselves into a tight spiral formation, and hurled their caps in the air. As they did, Bennett beamed with pride.
"Boy, these kids came through like champs," he said, as they hugged, leaving their caps scattered across the field, a rare kind of happy debris for this town.
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Congratulations graduates!
Ray37212, Nashville, TN (Sent May 19, 2006 1:39:00 PM)
I came to help you guys in April and was stunned by what I saw. Praise the Lord that you did't let the storm take away your hopes, dreams, and pride in your town. Congratulations, and know that you are not forgotten and that you all are prayed for daily.
karen Zeeland, MI (Sent May 19, 2006 2:11:33 PM)
May all of you find your heart's desire. It is YOU that show the true American spirt. America is proud of you all.
Joe Carpenter, Wilmington, NC (Sent May 19, 2006 2:16:03 PM)
Wonderful, wonderful, wonderful!!! Uplifting and in-
spirational are the feelings that arise from seeing
these students truly "overcome"! What a great hope
for all of our futures. I've been around a few years
and have definitely had my fair share of major bumps in life, (mentally, physically, emtionally)... but somehow I always knew that keeping a real positive attitude was the best medicine there is for getting
thru. It's like a giant booster shot that enhances whatever else you might require to survive. It's having a faith or belief that everything WILL be good
again. I raised 3 terrific adults who now themselves have children who will be in/of this world. They, and others like them, "are our future". Thank you, students of Bay High School for showing us all what you can do! Best wishes for a fulfilled and blessed future! You should feel such pride in what you have accomplished; we should all feel very P-R-O-U-D!!!
Mom/Grandma/Nanny Murrieta,CA (Formerly Pittsburgh,PA) (Sent May 19, 2006 2:22:18 PM)
Congratulations! You're sheer gut and determination will help you to do well in the future. Never forget your past as you forge your future. Good Luck.
Jim Ivell, Kennerdell, Pennsylvania (Sent May 19, 2006 2:22:52 PM)
IS America strong? Ha! Thank you, Bay St. Louis students! Yup, we are strong!
Be well; do well...and we will all be well!
Bob S. Hale Park Ridge, Illinois (Sent May 19, 2006 2:24:37 PM)
As I read, my tears came down. Reminding me how much will power we have as young adults. Congratulation Class of 2006!!!
Maria Santiago,Orlando,Florida (Sent May 19, 2006 2:28:13 PM)
congratulations and good luck to you all
judy (Sent May 19, 2006 2:43:46 PM)
May God richly bless each and every one of you. You have shown faith, desire, drive and determination. Keep that spirit!
Bobbie, Arnold, MO (Sent May 19, 2006 2:46:53 PM)
Thanks to the generosity of America who made it possible for these kids, our future of Bay St. Louis, to continue their dream of making it through their Senior Year together.
michelle, bay st. louis (Sent May 19, 2006 2:47:36 PM)
These kids are an example of true Americans. Showing we can survive anything if we relly want to. God Bless eac and everyone of them. They have a true right to be proud.
John Doe Vero Beach , Florida (Sent May 19, 2006 2:49:39 PM)
Way to go Class of 06!! As a past Bay High student, it makes me proud to see you push the debris to the side and walk with pride!!! We will rebuild, not only bay St. Louis, but the whole coast!!!
Tinaka, Riverview, FL (Sent May 19, 2006 2:58:54 PM)
Congratulations, Class of 2006! You make all Mississipians (transplanted ones, too) proud!
Michael Roberts, Houston, TX (Sent May 19, 2006 2:59:45 PM)
Congraduation to each graduate. We resided in your area until 1999 and our kids went to school in Bay St. Louis. We feal a real sense of pride in your accomplishment. We pray that your strength in overcoming difficulties will serve you well throughout your lives. God Bless.
Huntsville, Alabama (Sent May 19, 2006 3:13:51 PM)
yall have something to be very proud about! Good job at keeping the faith. congrats
lisa fouts north salem IN (Sent May 19, 2006 3:18:51 PM)
What a class act. God Bless you kids.
Holly D. Plant City, Fl (Sent May 19, 2006 3:22:43 PM)
Graduates, you earned two diplomas yesterday. One was for academic accomplishment. The other is for character. Congratulations!
Jim McCann, Baton Rouge, LA (Sent May 19, 2006 3:23:24 PM)
Way to go Graduates! Each of you will look back on this with a sting in your eyes, and a lump in your throat, just as I have now.
Marcy, Hattiesburg, MS (Sent May 19, 2006 3:25:43 PM)
God Luck Y'all.Now use that energy to help rebuild the spirit of the Gulf Coast of Mississippi
Gerard Scheuermann, Manteca, CA (Sent May 19, 2006 3:28:11 PM)
Congratulations!! You've endured many more obstacles in the past year than most people will in their lives. We wish you continued success and the best of luck in your future endeavors.
Linda Plano, TX (Sent May 19, 2006 3:44:49 PM)
I am a Katrina survivor also, although I have moved away from the area. I have alot of respect for these kids and hope that their futures are bright and happy. They deserve the best!! Congratulations!!!
Cindy Haring (Sent May 19, 2006 4:04:36 PM)
Awesome job, Class of '06! I pray that life has already thrown you the worst it has to offer you.
Stephanie Umbro, Maine (Sent May 19, 2006 4:09:43 PM)
Congratulations to you all!!!! And in the words of Dr. Seuss " Oh the places you will go!"
Gail Roberts Houston, Texas (Sent May 19, 2006 4:53:00 PM)
After two relief trips with volunteers from my church to Waveland/Bay St. Louis, I can testify as to the resilience of these kids. One teen in particular stands out, Anna Sharpe, as being the pillar of the family during those first few months. If interested in stories & pictures from these trips, visit www.reedfam.net and click on the Katrina graphic. Congratulations on y'all pulling back together and graduating! You have changed us forever!
Brad Carlson, Ann Arbor, Michigan (Sent May 19, 2006 5:18:54 PM)
Congratulations class of 2006!! We always tell our kids as they graduate, to go out and make a difference. You already have! I hope the future holds much success and happiness for all of you.
Debbie, Dingmans Ferry, PA (Sent May 19, 2006 5:20:56 PM)
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